miscarriage

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When I had my miscarriage I was desperate to connect with someone who had been through the same thing. Someone who knew that saying “You can have more kids” or “It was for the best” weren’t the really correct things to say. I needed to know that grieving was okay. I needed to know that completely… Read More Community

miscarriage

1 in 4: 2013

Today is Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness/Remembrance Day. I am writing this post in the waiting room of my OB/midwife office. It feels weird having an appointment today. Before I got here, I looked at G and was reminded that if I hadn’t had my loss, I’d be chasing a 2 year old girl around… Read More 1 in 4: 2013

miscarriage

I am 1 in 4

My friends and I sit around a table. There are nine of us. Out of the nine, one just had a baby and one is about to pop. Despite the uneasy feeling I can’t shake off, I announce that I’m pregnant. Then another friends does. And then another. Four of us pregnant at the same time. Wow!… Read More I am 1 in 4